by Monika Hoyt | May 11, 2013 | Self Sabotage
Most people don’t think their relationship failed because of them, or because they should have done something differently. They are more likely to think: “My partner just isn’t there for me.” “No matter what I say or do, I can’t get through to...
by Monika Hoyt | Feb 28, 2013 | Emotional connection, Empowerment, Negativity, positivity, Relationships
Do you ever try to keep things positive in your relationship, but your partner’s energy brings you down? Or do you take your partner’s bad moods too personally? One of the biggest challenges in relationships is protecting ourselves from too much negativity. It...
by Monika Hoyt | Jan 11, 2013 | Emotional connection, Receiving, Relationships, Self Care
Most everyone I know recognizes the importance of self-care, at least theoretically. We get that if we take care of ourselves, we will have more to give others. But it is HARD sometimes! At least for me, it was a real challenge to make it happen. And I know I’m not...
by Monika Hoyt | Oct 19, 2012 | Communication Tips, Empowerment
Do you have any conflicts or differences that just keep coming up, never to be resolved? You may discuss them to no avail, and then sweep them under the rug. Then–when other problems come up–it feels like an avalanche of unsolved issues and creates low...
by Monika Hoyt | Sep 28, 2012 | Assertiveness, Empowerment, Money, Trust
Money issues can cause huge rifts between even the most loving couples. In fact, fights about money play a significant role in 90 percent of divorces. This is because–when it comes right down to it–money isn’t about money. Last week in my video blog about...
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