Manifesting is in general terms simply making something “readily perceived by the eye or the understanding; evident; obvious; apparent.”
But for those of us seeking to make changes in our lives, manifesting is more specific: It is the creative act of turning a dream/vision/goal into a material reality. It means transcending circumstances and creating a new life, from the inside out.
If you are seeking relationship transformation, it is crucial to tune into what limiting beliefs may stand in the way of getting what we want.
To learn more, watch this short video by Marie Forleo, hugely successful marketing and lifestyle expert. She interviews Gabby Bernstein, the best-selling author of Spirit Junkie. Gabby describes in a nutshell the process of manifesting and what it takes. It reminds me of the book The Secret, which catapulted global awareness of the law of attraction, and how this law plays a part in our lives– whether we know it or not.
I personally love this video because it stresses the importance of changing limiting beliefs in attracting our ideal circumstances. Gabby herself had to overcome her limiting beliefs (“I can’t write, I’m only at an 8th-grade writing level”) in order to become the best-selling author she is today.
She transcended her reality by knowing she was a published author–years before she actually was.
Check it out (the good stuff starts at around 3:15) and let me know what you think!
So if you are ready to make changes in your relationship, think about these questions:
- What kind of relationship do you want to have?
- What kind of person do you need to be in order to have that?
- And, what to you need to believe to be that person?
As always, let me know how this goes! And reach out if you have any questions!