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Why you married one of your parents: Imago matching and what to do about it

Why you married one of your parents: Imago matching and what to do about it

by Monika Hoyt | Oct 22, 2017 | Communication Tips, Harville Hendrix

Do you often wonder if you picked the wrong partner? You were SO in love, and now you just can’t get what you need from them. This common experience in relationships is a tribute to the power of the subconscious mind, which–let’s face it–is what...
Extramarital Affairs: 7 Risk Factors

Extramarital Affairs: 7 Risk Factors

by Monika Hoyt | Jun 7, 2017 | Betrayal, Communication Tips, Deal Breakers, Trust

Extramarital affairs can be devastating to everyone involved, most of all the cheated partner. It’s estimated that roughly 30 to 60% of all married individuals in the U.S. will engage in infidelity at some point during their marriage. What’s disturbing is...
Communication Problems: How to Nix Them in 3 Simple Steps

Communication Problems: How to Nix Them in 3 Simple Steps

by Monika Hoyt | Feb 18, 2017 | Communication Tips

Communication problems happen to everyone—casual work mates, friends, or family members. It’s inevitable since no two people wear the same interpretive lenses, and sometimes we fail to see the intention behind a communication. Many times it’s a simple misunderstanding...
Reflective Listening: A Deeper Look

Reflective Listening: A Deeper Look

by Monika Hoyt | Aug 14, 2015 | Communication Tips, Emotional connection, Listening

Usually when we imagine good communication, we think about how to most effectively (and without harm) get across our point. We plan what we want to say, how we want to say it, and get clear on our intentions. That’s because we know that listening is important. I...

How to Express Love on Your Partner’s Terms

by Monika Hoyt | Oct 26, 2012 | Communication Tips, Emotional connection, Trust

In the same way that our partners can “push our buttons” in a negative way, they can push them in a positive way too. Dr. Jonathon Ross calls the latter “charming our  hearts.” Essentially this means “casting a spell of enchantment” and making...

Conflict Resolution Steps: The Art of Negotiation in Relationships

by Monika Hoyt | Oct 19, 2012 | Communication Tips, Empowerment

Do you have any conflicts or differences that just keep coming up, never to be resolved?  You may discuss them to no avail, and then sweep them under the rug. Then–when other problems come up–it feels like an avalanche of unsolved issues and creates low...
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