Hi, I’m Monika Hoyt. I am a therapist and relationship coach specializing in marriages and long-term relationships on the brink of separation or divorce.

I help successful, spiritually-minded people who are committed to seeking greater consciousness within themselves for the purpose of radically transforming their intimate relationships.

I walk my clients through an inside-out process of change, combined with a structured approach to creating healthy, authentic relationships. 

I have been counseling people for over twenty years. I’ve completed over 25,000 direct clinical hours and provided clinical supervision to other therapists for a total of four years.

Six years ago, I moved into the coaching space and began working for myself, in order to have more freedom to serve my clients using non-traditional methods that truly work.


My true passion has always been to discover the inner “magic” that allows us to create something unprecedented–new experiences that far transcend anything our previous life experiences could have predicted.

The question that always guides me is: What makes the difference between people who can break out of destructive patterns, and those who can’t?

I can tell you for sure, the answer is not about willpower, skills, or good intentions.

It’s a combination of vision, commitment, discipline, systematic action (in the right order using the right tools), faith and connection to the creative force we ALL have inside us. This force defies what our past relationships taught us, and helps us break out of even the most entrenched conditioning.

I am of the passionate conviction that our relationships are THE MOST IMPORTANT thing in our health, success, well-being, and happiness. There simply is nothing more important or worthy of our full attention.

Monika gets right to the heart of what it took me decades to figure out, and what I hadn’t yet resolved in my own relationship. I’m excited I finally got the solution with her program!

Julie Babcock

“This program could not have been more divinely planned!  We overcame major gridlock and this has helped our whole family. Thank you for the amazing work you do!”

Nichi Keuchle

Owner of My Healthy Beginning Wellness Center


I work with people who recognize that their primary relationship serves as the foundation for everything else they value in life, and who are committed to forming healthy, interdependent attachments with their partners.

This work is not easy. But making it a priority is a simple decision.

You are either ready to step into actions towards creating an amazing relationship, or you are not. NOT taking action is deciding to stay the same.

If you’re ready to leverage your insight and commitment to your marriage and make it better than it’s ever been, to create a healthy, deeply connected, honest and non-judgmental relationship where you are on the same team, then you’ve come to the right place.

My Qualifications:
Licensed Therapist

Coactive Coach

Certified Advanced PSYCH-K practitioner

EFT certified, level 2

MSW, San Francisco State University

LICSW, State of Minnesota

LCSW, Board of Behavioral Sciences, CA (inactive)



The Couple’s Code: Miraculous Recovery for Relationships on the Brink

In this class, I will show you:

  • The exact five steps you MUST take to turn around your relationship.
  • How to create powerful emotional connection (without learning any new communication skills).
  • The scientifically proven principle for successful long-term relationships.
  • Why most couples don’t know about the “invisible barrier” to relationship change, and how to remove it for GOOD.
  • Simple ways to create the best relationship you’ve ever had, without endlessly talking about your problems.

…AND how to do ALL of this while tapping back into the love and passion you had in the beginning of your relationship!

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